When preparing for a new baby, celebrations are a beautiful way to bring loved ones together - but did you know there’s more than one type of gathering to choose from? Baby showers and nesting parties are two popular ways to celebrate and support expecting parents. Each event has its own unique vibe and benefits. Let’s dive into the differences and the positives of both!

Baby Showers: A Classic Celebration
Baby showers are the traditional go-to event for celebrating a new arrival. Typically hosted by a close friend or family member, they’re often held during the second or early third trimester. The focus? Showering the expectant parents - especially the mum - with love, advice, and, of course, gifts.
Positives of a Baby Shower:
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Gifts Galore: Baby showers help parents stock up on essentials like clothes, diapers, and baby gear.
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Fun and Festive: With games, decorations, and sweet treats, it’s a lighthearted, joyful event to honor the parents-to-be.
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Building Community: Guests share stories, tips, and encouragement, helping the expectant parents feel supported.
Baby showers are especially great for first-time parents who may need a wide variety of baby supplies and enjoy the excitement of a traditional celebration.

Nesting Parties: A Practical Twist
Nesting parties are a newer, more practical alternative - perfect for parents who prefer a hands-on, productive gathering. Rather than focusing on gifts, loved ones come together to help the parents prepare their home for the baby’s arrival. Nesting parties usually happens late third trimester when the nesting instinct kicks in.
Positives of a Nesting Party:
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Tangible Support: Friends and family pitch in to set up the nursery, organise baby items, prep freezer meals, or tackle household chores.
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Emotional Boost: Nesting parties foster a sense of togetherness, reminding the parents they’re not alone.
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Customisable: Whether it's a laid-back day with pizza or a full-on home makeover, the vibe is totally up to the family.
Nesting parties are ideal for parents who already have the basics — perhaps second-time parents - or those who value practical help over traditional gifts.

Why Not Both a Baby Shower and a Nesting Party!
The beauty of these celebrations is that you don’t have to choose one or the other. Some families enjoy a joyful baby shower earlier on and then host a nesting party closer to the due date. It’s all about what feels right for the parents-to-be.
Whether you’re drawn to the festive feel of a baby shower or the hands-on help of a nesting party, both celebrations offer meaningful ways to support growing families. At the end of the day, it’s less about the type of event and more about surrounding the parents with love, encouragement, and support as they prepare to welcome their little one.
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